What makes signals like these hard is that they often only become visible as signals after the outcome arrives. The "oh, that was actually strange now that I think about it" effect. Like noticing you were yawning more than usual and only realizing later it was the warning of a headache.
Which makes me wonder — is something a sign because we know the outcome, or was it always one?
At the moment of the choice, the option taken was probably the best fit for what was visible then. The fact that it stops being the best fit later happens often enough.
Still, the initial response feels worth holding onto. Even if it doesn't function as a clear signal at the time, it can become an early warning siren for the next round.
True—that’s how we learn. But socially, we also learn early on in life to dismiss signs, especially embodied ones, and privilege other, more accessible and acceptable forms of knowledge.
What makes signals like these hard is that they often only become visible as signals after the outcome arrives. The "oh, that was actually strange now that I think about it" effect. Like noticing you were yawning more than usual and only realizing later it was the warning of a headache.
Which makes me wonder — is something a sign because we know the outcome, or was it always one?
At the moment of the choice, the option taken was probably the best fit for what was visible then. The fact that it stops being the best fit later happens often enough.
Still, the initial response feels worth holding onto. Even if it doesn't function as a clear signal at the time, it can become an early warning siren for the next round.
True—that’s how we learn. But socially, we also learn early on in life to dismiss signs, especially embodied ones, and privilege other, more accessible and acceptable forms of knowledge.
This one really got me thinking. So many times we silence that inner voice of knowing. Thanks for writing this thought-provoking piece. 🥰
Thanks Rosa Linda! I’m glad it resonated.